婚姻是一次选择,不是为了排遣寂寞或者寻找一张长期的饭票,更激烈点,相当于是一次赌注。Marriage is a choice, not to entertain the lonely or looking for a permanent meal ticket, more intense, the
equivalent is a bet.
爱情与婚姻总是不能两全的,更不是唯一的。Love and marriage is not like women, and certainly not unique.
恋爱的感觉就是一种欣快感,对人的强化作用非常大,
the “in love “ feeling euphoric , and it is quite
reinforcing.当我们接受不完美是婚姻生活中的一部分是,当我们继续在婚姻生活中前行,并理解婚姻生活时,我们就会达到别人羡慕的婚姻生活。When we accept
that imperfection is part of being human,and when we can continue rolling through life and appreciate it , we will have achieved a wholeness that others can be jealous of Marriage,
于是不少朋友婚后发现,So many of my friends are married found,这种婚姻生活只是不同形式的加锁,it was simplyashackle of a different form,会感觉自己再茫茫荒野中,一筹莫展。It was stranded in the middle of nowhere.他们觉得没有满足感,they feel unfulfilled,却已成为彼此的习惯,生活中难以割舍的那份情They have become each other's habits, Difficult to give up a share of love life,and昔日的记忆奇妙而美好,浸透了眼泪和昨日微笑的安慰和抚爱。Thire memory is one of wondrous
beauty ,watered by tears ,and coaxed and caressed by the smiles of yesterday.
婚姻的选择,更是艺术的选择,婚姻是一种合并,
marriage is more like a merger.要像坚守生命一样坚守住它,cling to them as you would cling to your marriage life,so“不选最贵的,只选最好的”。
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