Today, I read a famous American writer Spencer. Johnson wrote "Who Moved My Cheese", which is really benefited!
"Who Moved My Cheese" the stress of the two dwarves and the story of two small mice. The article centers around the "cheese" acquisition, possession, lost, different people have different state of mind, resulting in very different strategy. Xiu Xiu is like a hurry and quickly start up? Or as Hengheng as afraid of change, and refused to deny that change? Or chirp like to see changes in the way things will get better and be able to adjust in time to adjust to the changes in their own? In fact, for any one person, living and learning in too many changes when no changes occur everywhere, whether we fear the arrival of the change. If we are able to adapt to the changes as soon as possible to adjust their own, we can do better. When we are faced with change, we fear, will feel at a loss, which is normal. As long as we can seriously deal with the fear of science, it can even help us to avoid the real danger. We do not have to refuse to change, we can change the attitude changes, changes in the enjoyment of change, to embrace change to meet the change.
On the other hand, the "cheese" is a hard won through the superior state. "Cheese" is an opportunity, but also have a core competence. How are we going to have to grasp and it? Transposition as a thinking, we often long for the Meng Jiao's "Horseshoe Chunfengdeyi radical, Chang spent every day to see" extremely frivolous and joy, but difficult to understand "small building last night, the east wind," Li Yu's sad feelings. As part of this comparison, we need to grasp today, seize the opportunity to learn to care for the protection and well-protected, such as not in the hands of "cheese" change acid, worse, do nothing in the way other people have also Jingxian.
Change is constant. Although Xiu Xiu as the general fear of change and denied that changes in the blame, but if the same chirp in time to adjust themselves to adapt to the changes are more and more, this is the times and social development due. The original "cheese" will one day consume, how do we address it? In Carnegie, "the weakness of human nature" that do not break the glass and sad, we have not remembered for the "cheese" and longing, it will be "white-lady-in-waiting Xuanzong words" helpless and wishful Fascinated. What we need is found suitable for their own roads, out of an easy life, beyond fear, which relies on local animals and look for a new "cheese." Life does not comply with the wishes of an individual to change at any time will come, but actively to change the face of it you will find a better cheese, no matter whether we are aware of the new "cheese" is always present in a place
《谁动了我的奶酪》读后感
今天我读完了美国著名作家斯宾塞.约翰逊写的《谁动了我的奶酪》一书，真是受益匪浅！
《谁动了我的奶酪》讲的是两个小矮人和两只小老鼠的故事。文章主要围绕“奶酪”的获得、拥有、失去，不同的人产生的不同心态，由此产生迥异的行动策略。是像嗅嗅和匆匆，迅速开始行动？还是像哼哼那样害怕变化，否认和拒绝变化？还是像唧唧那样看到变化会使事情变得更好，并能够及时地调整自己去适应变化？其实，对于任何一个人来说，生活和学习中有太多的变化，变化无时无处不在发生，无论我们是否害怕变革的到来。如果我们能够尽快调整自己适应变化，我们完全可以做得更好。当我们面对变化时，我们会害怕，会感到无所适从，这很正常。只要我们能够认真科学的对待畏惧，它甚至可以帮助我们避开真正的危险。我们无须拒绝变化，我们完全可以改变对变化的态度，在变化中享受变化，拥抱变化，迎接变化。
从另一方面来说，“奶酪”是一种通过艰辛努力而获得的优越状态。“奶酪”是一种机遇，也是一种拥有的核心能力。我们该如何把握和拥有呢？作为一种换位思考，我们对于常常向往着孟郊的“春风得意马蹄急，一日看尽长安花” 的轻狂和喜悦，却难以体会“小楼昨夜又东风”的李煜伤感情怀。作为这种对比，我们就需要把握今天，把握机会，学会细心保护和精心呵护，不要等手中的“奶酪”变酸、变坏，在无可奈何之中又惊羡别人的拥有。
变化是永恒的。尽管还有如同嗅嗅一般因害怕变化而否认变化，怨天尤人的人在，但如唧唧一样及时调整自己去适应变化的人是越来越多了，这是时代和社会的发展所致。原有的`“奶酪”总有一天会消耗，我们该如何面对？卡奈基在“人性的弱点”中说，不要为打碎的玻璃杯而伤心，我们也不要为记忆中的“奶酪”而向往，那只会是“白头宫女话玄宗” 的无奈和一厢情愿的神往。我们需要的是发现适合自己的道路，摆脱安逸，超越恐惧，恃机而动，寻找新的“奶酪”。生活并不会遵从某个人的愿望，改变随时会降临，但积极地面对改变却会让你发现更好的奶酪，不管我们是否意识到，新的“奶酪”总是存在于某个地方。
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