性格与命运日记带翻译

2021-01-24 日记

　　有一种说法是“性格决定命运”。前几年关于这样的说法简直数不胜数，但是一直以来我都对这句话存有怀疑。命运和性格是相互影响的，童年时期的命运对性格的形成影响至深，却偏偏是我们无法把控的。

　　There is a saying that "character decides fate". In the past few years, there have been countless statements about this, but I have always doubted that. Fate and character influence each other. The fate of childhood has a profound influence on the formation of character, but it is beyond our control.

　　今天接受了BPD4测试，这是有关人格障碍的筛查量表。我自认在回答问题时是客观的。结果显示，我在偏执型、分裂型、边缘型、回避型、抑郁型的得分都呈现阳性，还有反社会型的倾向。这样一份筛查量表无疑不能确定我的人格缺陷，但它让我思考了性格和命运之间的`关系。

　　Today I took the bpd4 test, a screening scale for personality disorders. I consider myself objective in answering questions. The results showed that I had positive scores in paranoid, schizoid, marginal, avoidant and depressive types, as well as antisocial tendencies. Such a screening scale certainly can't confirm my personality defect, but it makes me think about the relationship between character and destiny.

　　回想在我的成长过程中遭遇的某些事件，性格的原因可能无法忽视。因为我不愿意放弃自己追求的理念，不愿意随波逐流屈从于别人，我与家庭产生了巨大的矛盾。因为我习惯隔绝于社会，不热衷人际交往，几乎总是单独行动，我失去了结交亲密朋友的机会，很难与他人建立亲密关系。

　　Looking back on some of the events I encountered in my growth, the reasons for my character may not be ignored. Because I don't want to give up the idea that I pursue, and I don't want to go with the flow and submit to others, I have a huge contradiction with my family. Because I am used to being isolated from the society, not keen on interpersonal communication, and almost always acting alone, I lost the opportunity to make close friends, and it is difficult to establish close relations with others.

　　可是，如果说性格决定命运，那是决定了性格的，又是什么呢？自我性格中一些根深蒂固的东西，又如何不是命运的产物呢？我从出生的家庭得不到多少关爱，成长环境中长期被欺凌，又怎么可能会用温柔的心去拥抱这个世界。我曾经对人温暖热情，换来的却是欺骗和冷漠，我又怎样对世界报以善意，怎样抹消那些“反社会”的念头。

　　However, if character determines fate, it determines character. What is it? How can something deeply rooted in one's personality not be the product of fate? I don't get much care from the family I was born with. How could I embrace the world with a gentle heart when I was bullied in my growing environment for a long time. I used to be warm and warm to people, but in exchange for deception and indifference, how can I repay the world with kindness, and how can I erase those "antisocial" ideas.

　　改变性格中感觉不好的一些方面，虽是必要的，却又何其艰难。“江山易改，本性难移”，仅仅是想去调整性格中的某些方面，都已经让人感觉无从下手、力不从心，因为我们极难跳出自我，我们的一举一动都被性格局限着。

　　Although it is necessary to change some aspects of bad feeling in character, it is not so difficult. "Easy to change, hard to change", just want to adjust some aspects of the character, have made people feel helpless, powerless, because we are extremely difficult to jump out of ourselves, our every move is limited by the character.

　　在一个人的生命中，性格和命运随着一生的际遇相互交织，共鸣共振。尽管我想要去改变，一切却已经早已根植在心里。

　　In one's life, character and destiny interweave with each other and resonate with each other. Although I want to change, everything has already been rooted in my heart.

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