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¡¡¡¡We are all in the position of the farmer. If we plant a good seed, we reap a good harvest. If our seed is poor and full of weeds, we reap a useless crop. If we plant nothing at all, we harvest nothing at all. I want the future to be better than the past. I do not want it contaminated by the mistakes and errors with which history is filled. We should all be concerned about the future because that is where we will spend the remainder of our lives.

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¡¡¡¡Now I know that there are no times in life when opportunity, the chance to be and do gathers so richly about my soul when it has to suffer cruel adversity. Then everything depends on whether I raise my head or lower it in seeking help. Whenever I am struck down, in the future, by any terrible defeat, I will inquire of myself, after the first pain has passed, how I can turn that adversity into good. What a great opportunity that moment may present¡ªto take the bitter root I am holding and transform it into fragrant garden of flowers.

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¡¡¡¡Life is full of confusing and disordering particular time, a particular location, do the arranged thing of ten million time in the brain. Step by step , the life is hard to avoid delicacy and stiffness, no enthusiasm forever and no unexpected happening of surprising and pleasing. So, only silently ask myself in mind next happiness, when will come?

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¡¡¡¡When the door of happiness closes, another opens, but often times we look so long at the closed door that we dont see the one which has been opened for us. Dont go for looks, they can deceive. Dont go for wealth, even that fades away. Go for someone who makes you smile because it takes only a smile to make a dark day seem bright. Find the one that makes your heart smiles.

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¡¡¡¡What will matter is not how many people you knew, but how many will feel a lasting loss when youre gone. What will matter is not your memories, but the memories of those who loved you. What will matter is how long you will be remembered, by whom and for what. Living a life that matters doesn¡¯t happen by accident.

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¡¡¡¡Thinking of the memory of the past, with the current sadness, read with future bumpy.

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¡¡¡¡Let us run with the wind, to the pursuit of a great, sacred dream!

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¡¡¡¡Im ready to go with you for a lifetime, and ready for you to go.

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¡¡¡¡Dont do what you regret, do it, and do what you regret.

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¡¡¡¡No matter how much you hate your school, when you leave for a long time, you still miss it.

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¡¡¡¡we have conquered the uter space,but not our inner space;

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¡¡¡¡these are times with more liberty,but less joy;

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¡¡¡¡these are the days in which it takes two salaries for each home,but divorces increase;

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¡¡¡¡you do not keep anything for a special occasion.because every day that you live is a special occasion.

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¡¡¡¡search for knowledge,read more ,sit on your porch and admire the view without paying attention to your needs;

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¡¡¡¡spend more time with your family and friends,eat your favorite foods,visit the places you love;

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¡¡¡¡life is a chain of moments of enjoyment;not only about survival;

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¡¡¡¡remove from your vocabulary phrases like"one of these days"or "someday";

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¡¡¡¡do not delay anything that adds laughter and joy to your life;

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¡¡¡¡every day,every hour,and every minute is special;

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¡¡¡¡Occasionally, life can be undeniably, impossibly difficult. We are faced with challenges and events that can seem overwhelming, life-destroying to the point where it may be hard to decide whether to keep going. But you always have a choice. Jessica Heslop shares her powerful, inspiring journey from the worst times in her life to the new life she has created for herself:

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¡¡¡¡I worked in a finance job that I hated and I lived in a concrete jungle city with little greenery. I occupied my time with meaningless relationships and spent copious quantities of money on superficialities. I was searching for happiness and had no idea where to find it.

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¡¡¡¡Then I fell ill with Chronic Fatigue Syndrome (CFS) and became virtually bed bound. I had to quit my job and subsequently was left with no income. I lived with my boyfriend of then only 3 months who financially supported me and our relationship was put under great pressure. I eventually regained my physical health, but not long after that I got a call from my family at home to say that my father¡¯s cancer had fiercely progressed and that he had been admitted to a hospice.

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¡¡¡¡My father was a complete inspiration to me. He was always so strong that, for a minute after he drew his last breath, I honestly thought he would come back to life. I couldn¡¯t believe I would never again cuddle into his big warm chest and feel safe no matter what.

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¡¡¡¡The grief that followed was intense for all of us 5 children and our mother, but we had each other.

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¡¡¡¡But my oldest sister at that time complained of a bad back. It got so bad after 2 months that she too was admitted to hospital.

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¡¡¡¡I could never put into words the loss of my sister in my life.

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¡¡¡¡She was a walking, talking angel and my favourite person in the whole world. If someone could have asked me the worst thing that could ever happen, it would have been losing her.

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¡¡¡¡The shock and extreme heart break brought me to my knees. The pain was so great and my world just looked desolate. I had no real home, no money, no job, and no friends that cared. Not one person had even sent me a sympathy card for my loss.

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¡¡¡¡I realised during that night that I had a choice. I could choose to end my life or I could choose to live it.

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¡¡¡¡I looked in my sister¡¯s eyes and I made a decision not to go with her just yet. That I would stay and complete my journey here.

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¡¡¡¡I also made the decision that, I wouldn¡¯t just live any life. I would live the life that I absolutely LOVE and nothing less.

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¡¡¡¡In that moment, the clarity that descended around me was like a light shining in a dark room for the first time. As if the earth¡¯s plates had shifted under my feet and everything suddenly looked real for the first time.

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¡¡¡¡We often close ourselves off when traumatic events happen in our lives; instead of letting the world soften us, we let it drive us deeper into ourselves. We try to deflect the hurt and pain by pretending it doesn¡¯t exist, but although we can try this all we want, in the end, we can¡¯t hide from ourselves. We need to learn to open our hearts to the potentials of life and let the world soften us.

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¡¡¡¡Whenever we start to let our fears and seriousness get the best of us, we should take a step back and re-evaluate our behavior. The items listed below are six ways you can open your heart more fully and completely.

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¡¡¡¡Whenever a painful situation arises in your life, try to embrace it instead of running away or trying to mask the hurt. When the sadness strikes, take a deep breath and lean into it. When we run away from sadness that¡¯s unfolding in our lives, it gets stronger and more real. We take an emotion that¡¯s fleeting and make it a solid event, instead of something that passes through us.

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¡¡¡¡We all know what that twinge of anxiety feels like. We know how fear feels in our bodies: the tension in our necks, the tightness in our stomachs, etc. We can practice leaning into these feelings of discomfort and let them show us where we need to go.

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¡¡¡¡We¡¯re often confused at the next step to take, making pros and cons lists until our eyes bleed and our brains are sore. Instead of always taking this approach, what if we engaged a new part of ourselves that isn¡¯t usually involved in the decision making process?

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¡¡¡¡At 75, the wife did not ask the husband anymore, the husband was kneeling in front of the very sick wife. Remembering the question the wife used to ask him, this time he asked the wife the same question. The wife, with a smile and peaceful look, replied: In this life, I did not miss having you!

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¡¡¡¡The husband was full of tears. He always thought that they could be together forever. He was always busy with work and trifles. So much so he had never been thoughtful to his wife. The husband hugged the wife tightly and said: Over 50 years, how I had allowed myself to miss your deep love for me.

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¡¡¡¡In the busy city life, there are many people who are always busy with work. These people revolve their lives around their jobs, these people sacrifice all their times and health to meet the social expectations. They are unwilling to spend times on health care. They miss the opportunity to be with their children in their growing up. They neglect the loved ones who care for them, and also their health.

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¡¡¡¡Nobody knows what is going to happen one year from now.

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¡¡¡¡Life is not permanent, so always live in the now. Express your gratitude to your loved ones in words. Show your care with actions. Treat everyday as the last episode of life. In this way, when you are gone, you loved ones would have nothing to feel sorry about.

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¡¡¡¡Truly happy and successful people get that way by becoming the best, most genuine version of themselves they can be. Not on the outside--on the inside. Its not about a brand, a reputation, a persona. Its about reality. Who you really are.

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¡¡¡¡Sounds simple, I know. It is a simple concept. The problem is, its very hard to do, it takes a lot of work, and it can take a lifetime to figure it out.

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¡¡¡¡Nothing worth doing in life is ever easy. If you want to do great work, its going to take a lot of hard work to do it. And youre going to have to break out of your comfort zone and take some chances that will scare the crap out of you.

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¡¡¡¡But you know, I cant think of a better way to spend your life. I mean, whats life for if not finding yourself and trying to become the best, most genuine version of you that you can be?

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¡¡¡¡Thats what Steve Jobs meant when he said this at a Stanford University commencement speech:

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¡¡¡¡Your time is limited, so dont waste it living someone elses life. Dont let the noise of others opinions drown out your own inner voice.

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¡¡¡¡You have to trust that the dots will somehow connect in your future. You have to trust in something--your gut, destiny, life, karma, whatever. This approach has never let me down, and it has made all the difference in my life.

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¡¡¡¡The only way to do great work is to love what you do. If you havent found it yet, keep looking. Dont settle.

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¡¡¡¡Now, lets for a moment be realistic about this. Insightful as that advice may be, it sounds a little too amorphous and challenging to resonate with todays quick-fix culture. These days, if you cant tell people exactly what to do and how to do it, it falls on deaf ears.

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¡¡¡¡Not only that, but what Jobs was talking about, what Im talking about, requires focus and discipline, two things that are very hard to come by these days. Why? Because, focus and discipline are hard. Its so much easier to give in to distraction and instant gratification. Easy and addictive.

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¡¡¡¡To give you a little incentive to take on the challenge, to embark on the road to self-discovery, here are three huge benefits from working to become the best, most genuine version of yourself.

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¡¡¡¡It will make you happy. Getting to know yourself will make you feel more comfortable in your own skin. It will reduce your stress and anxiety. It will make you a better spouse, a better parent, a better friend. It will make you a better person. Those are all pretty good reasons, if you ask me.

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¡¡¡¡Besides, you really wont achieve anything significant in life until you know the real you. Not your brand, your LinkedIn profile, how you come across, or what anyone thinks of you. The genuine you. Theres one simple reason why you shouldnt try to be something youre not, and its that you cant. The real you will come out anyway. So forget your personal brand and start spending time on figuring out who you really are and trying to become the best version of that you can be.

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¡¡¡¡This is a prevalent misconception in many peoples minds---that love, like merchandise, can be "stolen". Numerous states, in fact, have enacted laws allowing damages for "alienation of affections".

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¡¡¡¡But love is not a commodity; the real thing cannot be bought, sold, traded or stolen. It is an act of the will, a turning of the emotions, a change in the climate of the personality.

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¡¡¡¡When a husband or wife is "stolen" by another person, that husband or wife was already ripe for the stealing, was already predisposed toward a new partner. The "love bandit" was only taking what was waiting to be taken, what wanted to be taken.

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¡¡¡¡We tend to treat persons like goods. We even speak of the children "belonging" to their parents. But nobody "belongs" to anyone else. Each person belongs to himself, and to God. Children are entrusted to their parents, and if their parents do not treat them properly, the state has a right to remove them from their parents trusteeship.

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¡¡¡¡But the rejected lover or mate cannot afford to believe that his beloved has freely turned away from him--- and so he ascribes sinister or magical properties to the interloper. He calls him a hypnotist or a thief or a home-breaker. In the vast majority of cases, however, when a home is broken, the breaking has begun long before any "third party" has appeared on the scene.

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